.But what Astrid doesn't recognize but is a truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who has pair of kids-- can attest to: The truth that your connection with your parents modifications and evolves as you each grow older, and also perhaps right. "Your planet centers around [your kids] when they are actually children [and] it is actually a lot work yet charming," O'Hara claims. "Later on, you really skip that, given that at that point you can't get them to carry out everything you want them to carry out, because they begin building their very own thoughts, their own opinions." And ultimately, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose kids are in their 20s as well as 30s, finds herself today, able to gain from her youngsters. "They are actually simply such awesome young people," she points out. "I am actually not their friend, but I really love having conversations with all of them and understanding exactly how they deal with life.".